quick poetry

i've been crying for a year
now my hair is turning grey
i'm going back to bed,
and calling it a day.

(i can rhyme!)

what a load ....

so watching tv. gotta love tv - there's always some stupid thing to complain about. today's complaint - lucy zillio - sooo annoying. and worse - always schilling for something. tonight's product? a book that tells you that there's no such thing as being born shy - that it's not natural. that you should look ppl in the eye when you're talking to them - that it shows how confident you are - that it helps you connect with people.

i would like to disagree. while this may be true for some ppl - it's not for all. i think it's just another perpetuation of control extroverts have over the world. there's nothing wrong with being an introvert - it's only problematic because extroverts have decided that it's an issue because they don't understand it.

it makes me rather upset that introverted qualities are deemed as the lack of confidence, and therefore a sign of weakness. it is a form of discrimination that's largely ignored. although - maybe i won't go as far as discrimination - but it results in a lot of misunderstandings. which is unfortunate. and it also results in ridiculous self-help books to make ppl change into something that they don't need to be.

and ... anger has simmered down. that was fairly short.

is it gender bender month?

so - earlier this month - i discovered my boy kitten is a girl kitten (i've mentioned this before) - there's not much of a story there ... but since this has happened ... i feel like i'm being inundated with transgender stories in my little world - the world of television. (oh prime time tv, what a great friend you are)

in the past week - i have seen parents giving birth to a baby with both parts - on private practice ... then on law and order: svu., there were multiple transgender story lines - and now i'm watching this week's house and ... bam - the parents chose at birth that their child would be a boy and not a girl.

seriously - this is way too much for it to be a coincidence.

electrifying

the best part of the science centre was always supposed to be the gigantic static ball - the one where you put your hands on it and your hair stood on end. of course, when i went to the science centre, this part was broken - but i have high hopes for the next time around.

i was petting my cat (who after 5 months, i have discovered is the fe type of male) - and could hear the crackle of static. but then ... i started noticing sparks. SPARKS! such super powers i have!

there is something just mesmerizing about electricity - it's the embodiment of power itself. it's something we can try to control, we create, we conjure - we try to keep it - but it's wild - it's not something we can keep caged. instead, we can just marvel as it crackles and pops into thin air.

KABAM!

and i'm back with a vengeance. ok - i'm not really back with vengeance ... i guess i can't claim that until i've written multiple entries in a short period of time. so - we'll see on that one.

all this talk of valentine's day made me think back to last year at this time when i was actually keeping a note book (apparently if it's not homework, i don't do it ... where is my willpower, man?) ... it's sad that i have things in my note book that are just waiting there, just waiting to be used. and then, of course, there are other observations that never need to be shared or aren't particularly interesting. and for some reason, this it what i wish to write tonight. (go figure)

i remember last year, wandering the mall on valentine's day - for some unknown reason, i had for once decided to partake in the silliness. although, really, i think i was really more inspired by the prospect of chocolate than i was about valentine's day itself.

i had never been in the mall on valentine's day before. and never before had i seen so many men, alone and en masse in the mall. line after line - just full of them. (of course, only at the proper places - the florists, the chocolatiers ...). some men were walking in straight lines, determined to make it to the subway to commence the commute home when they'd do a double take at the line, furrow their brow, sigh and walk to the end of it. never had it been so obvious what a duty, what an obligation valentines has become. but even so - the little girl in me still sees some magic in the little candy hearts and red roses. it makes me miss the day when we skipped around the room sprinkling cartoon festooned cards into the construction paper mailboxes that we so lovingly taped - and later ripped off and dumped - to the front of our desks. oh the days of innocent bliss - how i miss thee.

i wanna go to denver

so it's the new year - and with new year, should come change. but - to me, it seems like it's the same old story. the record's stuck - the needle fingering the same part of the record over and over again, like some fond memory. but - it's anything but.

there's a certain whimsy about records. they're pressed - like flowers, like pants, like wine. the patience - the care that goes into these products pays off. but now - we just burn a new cd. such a destructive word, burn. the flaming imagery is just representative of our ever quickening society. why do we have to move so fast? it just seems to be more and more destructive. i think we all just need a moment to sit down, take a breath and do nothing. who knows, it might just be good for what ails us.

a step in the right direction

a couple years ago i had one of those horrible break-ups that usually only exists on screen, given its degree of overdramatization. now - before you get the wrong idea - i'm not talking about the emotional repercussions of the break-up or how long it took me to get over it, no. i'm talking about the 30 or so minutes that i physically spent trying to explain to this guy about how it wasn't going to work, and then trying to extricate myself from the situation. (the emotional attachment on my part was, let us say - slim to nil).

anyway - among the gasping and the sobbing (his, not mine), mr. definitely not right was able to choke out his theory that i would never find love and therefore never be happy. for once, he tried to back up his argument with what could loosely be considered as reasoning (even if i don't personally find it all that reasonable). and the reasoning? apparently, i'm abnormal. and the abnormal cannot be loved. (apparently happiness is defined by heterogeneity).

shortly thereafter, i was talking to another ex, with whom i'm still friendly. he expressed his condolences over the failed relationship (apparently i date in small circles - the guys are acquaintances). during the course of the conversation, he made the assertion that it would never have worked out between me and the other guy, because the other guy needed someone with more stability.

the long and short of it? within a week, i discovered that i am neither normal nor stable.

but - oh! how the tides have turned. recently - i've been blessed with super powers. compared to mere mortals, my powers of super slothdrom are astronomical! however, they (yes - they of vagueries, hooded in the dark corner, unmentionable by name) are jealous and wish that i be disarmed. i am being monitored by their minions - those of the white lab coats and clipboards. and slowly, surely, i am making progress. just check out yesterday's status report: stable.

yes ... finally. i am stable! sure ... i'm not normal yet .. but you can't expect me to achieve it all in one try. so - i just wanted to say - HA! ha! to those of the past that doubted my ability to operate within society. this girl's almost ready to debut - just you wait and see!

a little touchy

in my den i have a tri-light that's activated by touch. it's a floor lamp, and you can touch it anywhere and it gets turned on (ooooooh, kinky). i rarely go in the den right now (i'm trying to root myself into my couch, become the ultimate couch potato, you know) - but, almost every time i walk by, the light's on. now, you might think that i'm just complaining about the light always being on ... but .. i turn it off every time. and then next time ... it's on again. i first thought it was my adorable little munchkins (kittens will be kittens, afterall) - but, it appears that the light goes on even if the kittens haven't been in the room. i'm confused. and it being hallowe'en eve ... a little concerned and spooked out.

melpie, the bubble tease

if i were to write an autobiography, it would most likely be entitled "adventures in embarrassment" - or that's what i've decided at least. snippets from my life that would provide endless entertainment to others. and of course, would make them feel better at their relatively low levels of klutziness.

so, today's episode? well, it has to do with bubble tea. after a happy fun day of medicinal discoveries, i was sitting down for this delightful treat with a friend. i hadn't had this scrumptiousness for some time- and it brought back wonderful memories of university.

sucking back the bubbles is of course the essence of the bubble tea experience. these balls were dewy with honey goodness (please - no laughing - this is completely innocent, completely pg ... well, so far ...). how delicious!

anyway - we were chatting, sipping our teas and enjoying the tapioca pearls. i made them dance up the straw, marvelling at the movement. but then, somehow .. one popped out. heck, it didn't just pop out, it popped out of the top of the straw and landed smack dab into the middle of my cleavage. right down the front of the shirt. of course, the only reasonable thing that i girl could do in this situation is to .. well, fish the thing out. sadly - it was a slippery little sucker.

so there i was - in the middle of the tea shop - hand down my shirt - searching in vain for a tapioca pearl. but, i exaggerate. it wasn't in vain. in less than a minute (but probably close to - i found it! now i know how the pirates felt when they found the buried treasure.

the challenged-ling

i've been re-reading some old entries. it suddenly occurred to me that i used to tell much better anecdotes. what has happened to these light-hearted tales of my endearing klutziness? am i just lazy? am i more self-conscious? is my mind wanting to write things that are much too serious and close to the heart? in the 30 seconds that i've been pondering, i've decided that i should write down some more of these stories.

the first of which, i shall call "adventures of the wide-legged pants" or perhaps, "lessons learned, off the cuff" ... anyway - it's not really important. the title can come later. now this is a story that combines one of my great loves - shoes - with my every day goal of walking without tripping. of course, i've finally managed to get pretty good at staying upright (while sober, at least) in shoes of all styles, heel heights and on all sorts of surfaces - flat, stepped, slanted, rocky, smooth, etc. so - once you've mastered something, it's good to throw in a new twist, a challenge, if you will - to keep things interesting.

my challenge - unbeknownst to myself - is the wide leg pant with the large bottom cuff. they seem innocent enough, swaying no the hanger - but once you get these suckers on ... er, i should say, once *i* put these suckers on ... you never know what's going to happen. the first such incident happened one day as i was descending the stairs at work. to ensure my pants weren't dragging on the ground, i was wearing a sizeable heel, a very slender pretty one at that. i was navigating the stairs with much skill when, without knowing, i stepped into my pants - the heel sliding neatly into the small fold between the pant leg and the cuff. of course, i found out very quickly as i went to take the next step down and ended up hurtling head first down the last few stairs. luckily, my reflexes aren't horrible and i was able to cling for dear life onto the bannister. but, even with my cat-like quickness, i ended up bruised and battered. (sadly, i was unable to wear skirts for a while - and i do love my skirts - and they're apparently much less dangerous for me).

sadly - i did not learn from the first mishap. i've had a couple more going down steps (once in the subway station - again - my amazingly quick bannister-grasping ability saved me) ... and more recently one time walking up steps. all of these incidents involved the stiletto. but ... yesterday - i reached new heights. i was wearing ballet flats and managed to trip in my cuffs. not because i stepped on my pants - but because i stepped in my pants.

so ... lessons learned?

1. stop wearing dangerous pants;
2. stop wearing dangerous pant/shoe combinations; or
3. wear knee pads under dangerous pants.

i think i may adopt number 3 ...

senseless

i thought they were overreacting at work. suddenly the boardroom is locked and you can only access by asking for the key. there are few supplies in the supplies room - you have to go and ask permission to get a new notebook, for crying out loud! but ... apparently there's a reason. (i'm always somewhat reassured when there is actually a reason) - apparently things have been going missing. moreso - chairs from the boardroom have been disappearing. i know they have wheels - but they don't spin on their own. and these aren't even nice chairs! i just can't understand - and as one who embraces logic with every ounce of her being - well, it just boggles.

this takes me to what i really want to talk about - people with signs supporting the liberals have been targeted in two toronto ridings. there's been some vandalism - but on top of this, slashed tires and cut brake lines. one great thing about canada is the freedom we have, our democratic process (no matter how laughable the current times may make it) - violence is something completely unexpected. and further - violence against the centrist party? what kind of sense does that make? the liberals sit on the fence to not offend anyone and they somehow managed to offend someone so much that it resulted in cut brake lines? but still - this violence worries me. we need more open dialogue and discussion about the policies that could perhaps once again really stir people to pride in their leaders .... and instead, we get the opposite. (more alarmingly, they are targeting federal liberals while complaining about mcguinty - if your'e that angry about politics, at least get your enemy right)


(as a final aside - it's wrong when my reaction to a conservative commercial is laughing out loud, right?)

happy birthday, mr. keith

if you change the b's and g's in blogger (the route of the blogspot site), you get globber. how do i know? well - i switched the letters ... where did it take me? well ... no where, really. but - if i wanted to spice this post up ....

but, i won't go there. we gotta keep this place disney-friendly, right?

the second of two days of my writing exercises - and the second of two where i have nothing to say. let's cross our fingers for something good for day three.

turning, turning

when i'm driving somewhere by myself, i like to listen to music. but - not just any music - music that i can sing along to. but when i say sing - i mean like, belt out at the top of my lungs. and when i say music - i mean show tunes.

specifically - i've been focused on les miserables. i used to listen to this incessantly (often while cleaning up the kitchen) when i was younger - and still, all the words are there at the tip of my tongue.

now the dilemma comes - i am going to be taking the thanksgiving weekend. however - i will not be alone. can i still bring the show tunes? or should i be talking to my road trip mate? with two- we could do duets and plays different parts! it would be so fun. perhaps i should forward him the music and lyrics now so that he can learn for the weekend ....

(ok - so this is all pointless - but i'm trying to make myself write again... so dribble that's more useless than usual will likely be the norm for the next while).

what to do

it's like an ice rink. you're gliding along - there's the occasional bump, but nothing to fret about. you steady yourself - arms out to rebalance yourself - and with another stroke you're sailing again. the air is crisp, not cold. the snow falls lightly. you look up and through the starlight, you feel as though you're twirling - like one of those cheesy movie shots - the worlds opens up lovingly around you. you take in a breath and smile, because - you're happy.

but then - someone speeds speeds by - you're spun one way, then the other and for once, you can't resteady yourself. even though you were being careful, even though you were looking over your shoulder - keeping yourself aware - you fall. you never thought you'd be here - but, sometimes it doesn't matter what you do - sometimes the world shifts, things change ... and you're left to pick yourself back up and figure out how to move forward.

you sit up and brush the frost from your knees and check your hands for scrapes. the crowd continues to skate by - laughing, giggling - but sidestepping you. on the ice, the air is suffocating. you look up - expecting a hand - but know that the hand you need is not there. but you can't sit there and wait for something that will not come. it's time to get up - even if you have to stumble.

belatedly, the last assignment

April 11, 2008

Mother Nature needs to take an anger management class. She's at it again, the bully -– I wonder wouldn't play with her this time? I can hear her try to sneak down the hollow of my chimney. But, I'm safe. The flue is shut.

I respect her – fear will do that. My lesson was learned as I stood with my family, in the usual place, watching the Canada Day festivities. Colours burst through the air as we gazed up in childish wonder, safe under the man-made glow. We shouldn't have ignored her. Mother Nature was silent, sulking and then suddenly jealous. A slice of lightning. A punch of thunder. Then it was done. My brother, a few feet away, was on the ground. A screaming world swirled around me. At last, he staggered to his feet and we ran for the safety of the cottage. Mother Nature's laughter rolled through the night - forever Queen of the Playground.

peter's little pet

"It's really amazing how quickly I can feel at home. Already almost one of the natives – partaking in their quaint rituals: siestas in the afternoon, a little vino with our 10 p.m. comida." The hotel's patio overlooking the Mediterranean was his stage. The poor couple across from us, his captive and unsuspecting audience.

Peter and Janet had been there a day, and they were still shaking the last remnants of jetlag here in their tourists' paradise. She knew they had only seen the real Spain as a slide show, scenes changing with the click-clacking of the train from Barcelona. But, Janet would remain quiet. Truth would spoil her self-important boyfriend's needs. The point of the story was always the same: Revel in the glory, the splendour that is Peter. She was free to withdraw and decided to engage in her favourite activity: people watching. As long as she was physically there, he wouldn't miss her.

Janet's gaze had fixed on a sturdy Labrador, bounding around his owner, when Peter's fingers pressed her arm. Her signal to perform, to be "the girlfriend" - to nod, to titter, to agree. She was well trained, Peter's little pet. He would never suspect the boiling jealousy she felt as the dog flashed by, red leash streaming behind, like a flag of freedom. As always, her china doll smile was perfect.

grey

The lines on the article on her desk are beginning to dance off the page in time to the incessant tap-tap typing beyond her work space. She shakes her head and tries to resume reading, but a voice breaks her concentration. "You know it's a bad night when it takes three shots of tequila before you can even pretend she's worth looking at." She swivels in her chair, searching for the source of the disturbance. The walls of her cell mock her. The furnishings - drab, neutral - are adept at hiding the grime that disputes the existence of the regular cleaning service. Her eyes narrow on the owl in the wildlife print that adorns the wall. Is he the one sharing this uninspired tale of inebriation? The foul de-oxygenized air must be suffocating the portion of her brain dedicated to reality. The voice continued: "You know, fat girls are like mopeds: fun to ride, but ..." She sighs. It's just Jason, the pompous foghorn doing time in office 347. The wax paper walls are no match for his twanged drawl.

p.s. i cheated and did not post my poetry assignment - it was pretty horrible - so we'll pretend it didn't exist.

white knights ride donkeys

DING

I bet his mother picked out his outfit. Wait, he’s mumbling something. Charlie Rubble? Oh Charlie, you’re a long way from Bedrock. Are you too shy to look me in the eye? This is so pathetic, yet another computer programmer. If I tune out now, I won’t have to hear him wax poetic about the un-fracking-believable phenomenon that is Battlestar Galactica. At least his shirt is ironed … it really brings out the colour of his eyes. Pure blue, they’re almost unreal. No receding hairline either (that’s a first for tonight). If only he’d muss it up a bit so it wasn’t such a Lego man hair helmet. And that smile, so endearing, so genui --

DING

sleeping senseless

“Where is it? I can’t find it.” My sister pawed through the closet like a squirrel in search of its forever misplaced acorn.

“Huh?”

“Where did you put it?” A dirty sock landed on my face.

“Wh.. what?”

“Where is it? Where’s my necklace? Where did you put it?” The dresser drawers, now the innocent victims of her midnight rampage.

“ … necklace?”

“MY necklace. Don’t play dumb with me. I KNOW you stole it.”

I rubbed my eyes. “I wish you’d make sense. Which necklace – what does it look like?”

She turned, the dumbly contented sleepwalker. “Well, actually,” she said, “it’s socks.”

dye a log

"i want it to be pink," he said.

"pink's so unnatural for maple though!" she said.

if you haven't gotten it yet - class number three was about dialogue. (ok, this is a couple weeks late - but i figure i should let you in on the lesson before i present my assignment).

apparently dialogue can be one of the most powerful part of the prose. it can say so much with what characters say and don't say. a lot of the lesson was about letting the dialogue talk by itself and to take away all distractions. keep simple tags like he said or she said and stay away from things like she exclaimed or he cried, etc. also - adverbs are apparently a huge sin.

the talk about dialogue did make me start to pay attention to the dialogue in books. usually i don't pay all that much attention to dialogue. maybe that's a sign of my introversion - i find the observations and internal musings of individuals much more interesting than their interactions with others. i found when i was writing this week that i really needed to put in more than just the dialogue - i needed more description. (apparently this was somethings i was supposed to stay away from in the assignment - we're supposed to work on things that we're weaker at and not to use our strengths at crutches or something like that).

thinking about it - i really should work on my dialogue more ... although, maybe it'd be better if i practiced talking to real people rather just writing about it ...